Dating with 22 year old young lady with aspergers syndrome being supported by her rich parents
Basically I was discovered about a year and a half ago by a 22 year old young lady with aspergers syndrome being supported by her rich parents. Having been single my entire life until that point (19 years, I am now 20), I quickly and happily jumped into a relationship in the typical lovers leap.
Fast forward almost a year and a half — After several near-breakups, once from HER attempt at infidelity, several absolutely absurd scenarios of money and circumstance, and discovering I am basically taking care of a child in the body of an adult, I have been bought by her parents to keep and eye on her and take care of her in their out-of-state absense.
Thanks to them, i’m driving a brand new SUV (since she has no license and can’t drive, so therefore I drive her everywhere), i’m living with her in a downtown apartment being paid for by HER/her parents, and I have just begun attending college, the tuition of which is — you guessed it — being paid by her dad.
My qualm that i’ve dwelled on for months now, is that i’ve been suckered into a contract. If I decide to call it quits for my own personal wishes, I give up the car, the apartment, and college. If I decide to stay with her and weather the storm, I can attain a college degree, keep the car, and keep living under my own jurisdiction.
The question my friends keep asking me though, is if the money is worth it, and I can’t figure out what’s more important: Forwarding my future at the cost of my patience amd personal/romantic sanity, (sex life is absymal, for the record ;_; ) or pulling out of the whole scheme and having to scramble through the aftermath for a vehicle, a job, and somewhere to live (basically backpedalling to my later teenage years AGAIN) — But being FREE of what i’ve discovered to be a spoiled, clueless rich daughter that takes money and ME for granted.
TLDR, I realized too late that I am naught but a pawn, paid by my austistic girlfriend’s rich parents to tolerate her childish behavior and general cluelessness. Should I follow the money to a career and tolerate her bullshit, or bail out and make myself happy and find better women, at the cost of the perks…?
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