Avoid looking in the wrong places. They’re usually not hanging out at bars or at grocery stores.
Attend Don’t rely on Singles Events. While some people obsess over where to meet attractive dating partners, and end up doing weird skits in grocery stores that only scare people away, others are increasing their opportunities by attending events that cater to singles. There are many events organized locally that bring together singles in your city, county or even your local neighborhood. This might be a great way to “speed up” however, be warned: singles event DOES NOT mean you have much in common with attendees. Those at a singles event knows that you’re looking, but the issue is «looking for what?» Still others may be eager to get to know you. To ensure that these events practical, and also very fun, look for a theme that will attract someone with similar interests. Some restaurants and clubs even sponsor these singles nights, for example, but a wine-tasting is going to attract a different crowd than a sports-themed event. Do avoid speed-dating though. It’s usually for those looking, and not ready for actual dating.
Use Friends of Friends. This is often the best method, though requires a careful approach. If you let it be known to your friends and associates network that you are looking for a date then you increase your dating opportunities while also warding off strangers and potential psychopaths. After all, your network of friends knows you very well and might be able to think of a potential match for you. The catch is, they have to know what you want. So don’t play the cold hard lonely heart and pretend as if you never want to date again. Friends will take you at your word; if you say you’re not looking, they will believe you. If you say you would like to meet someone, rest assured they will keep their eyes and ears open.
Use Online Dating — with caution. Online dating is a business, not a panacea for singles. Judgments are made by viewers based on superficial personal statistics. You may be able to find a dating partner through nationwide online matching services or even a local dating website, yet this is best for a general crowd. For instance, one study showed that a secretary with limited education and the most general interests did fine, but those with education and specific interests did not. While the power of the Internet has made it possible to drastically increase your dating opportunities, keep in mind it is not the same as meeting a person face-to-face. You are no longer hindered by distance or time in this instance, but lack of personal contact at first meeting may be a barrier to success.
Know that the possibilities are endless! Have confidence in yourself as you pursue the one true love of your life.
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