It’s something that you have always wanted to do but just didn’t have big enough balls for- dating two girls at the same time.
So here are the Xpert tips to dating two women at the same time and successfully pulling it off (and living to tell the tale)
Not taking calls
When you are out with one of your girl and the other calls you up, don’t make the mistake of not taking the call. Avoiding calls simply suggests that you are trying to hide something. Just talk normally making sure that your tone is neutral and keep the conversation short and tell her that you are busy and will call her back later. If you just have to dodge that call, just keep the phone on silent and when the incriminating call comes, just don’t pick up. Tell the woman calling that you didn’t hear the phone (which is very true)
Taking both of them to the same place
If have the habit of taking the two women to the same spot, then you will surely make some of the other regulars jealous or resentful. If they start yapping then your cover will be blown for good. You need to be very discrete. So if you take your girls out on dates choose different spots for each of them.
Girls live or work in the same area
It’s a huge risk to date people who live or work in close proximity with each other. Avoid dating two different co-workers, classmates, or girls who live in the same neighbourhood simultaneously. Even if you don’t get caught by your other, a close friend or a fellow colleague may see the two of you in action. Remember, your cover can get blown when you least expect it so don’t get arrogant about your routine. Always be careful of not leaving a trail behind. So be sure that there is absolutely no connection howsoever vague between the two girls.
Avoid having those intimate conversations with your flames and always carefully weigh your words before you utter them. Moreover, never ever make the mistake of using the wrong name while addressing your girl. So be sure that it’s actually Rekha you are talking to, when you use that name. Remember loose lips sink ships, so keep yours all zipped up to avoid sailing into a storm.
I agree, dating two women is living a lie (and an incredible one at that). But as long as you are truthful about everything else you won’t get caught in a difficult web of lies and end up shooting yourself in the wrong foot. So the less lies you tell, the less fibs you will have to keep track of, and the less likely you’ll be caught.
Seeing both girls on the same day
This one is really important, so read carefully. Never ever see two women in one day. Women have a way of finding out deceits that happened not too long ago. Be it the slightest fragrance on you or an unrecognizable strand of hair on your shirt. However, if you aren’t left with a choice make sure you bathe and change your clothes before picking up your lady number 2.
Having multiple partners is nothing less than playing with fire. Always keep a liberal stock of rubber with you and go for regular check-ups.
But in the end, you make your bed, you lie in it. The risk of it all is that you may lose that one great girl in the process, so make sure that the stakes aren’t too high so that you have less to lose.
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