Dating can become slightly demanding if you are dating somebody beyond your means.
This necessarily doesn’t mean that you are not worthy of dating rich girls. I am just trying to suggest that a girl clearly packing more moolah than you might present some issues. The following tips are engineered towards helping you in such a scenario:
Don’t Try To Impress Her With Materialistic Things
It is obvious that she doesn’t depend upon you for her shopping or other lifestyle needs. She might be doing well in her job or might have too much of daddy’s money. Either way, she cannot be impressed with expensive gifts. Trying to do so will only hurt you more as she might not value such gifts. Don’t try to show-off brands that usually tend to impress people. Yes, you still need to maintain a polished appearance but don’t brag about your latest purchases as such things are not going to impress her.
Some girls might be impressed with an artificial sense of urban fashionability that you might have developed. However, rich girls are more likely to date somebody whom they find original or creative. The more you give her a glimpse of your comparatively simpler life, more are the chances of her taking a keen interest in you. This is something parallel to having some mystique about you without even trying for it! Just dump the aura of being something you are not and discover how easy it is to attract richer brats with your originality.
Don’t Get Obsessed or Insecure About Her Riches
Just because she has more money to spend, it doesn’t mean that you are not worthy of dating her. Her financial superiority doesn’t reflect upon you as a prospective boyfriend in any way. Don’t let this issue bother you. Don’t tell her sob stories about how you would have been richer if certain things in your past life would have worked better. Don’t feel insecure about it and most importantly, don’t make the obvious comparisons in her presence. This is only going to erode your quotient of self–confidence. This is something you can ill afford when dating a rich girl who is essentially attracted to your persona. Don’t ask her about her bank balance or play stupid games where you try to guess the amount of wealth she has or the kind of riches she is going to inherit.
Become Her Confidante
Everybody needs somebody to confide about the darker aspects of life. One way of ensuring that your lower bank balance doesn’t bother her is to become her confidante. Become her guiding soul, her counselor. Encourage her to share things with you that she has never spoken about until now. Try to untangle her out of difficult situations. You have to become her go-to-friend if you plan to keep her as your girlfriend for a long time.
Don’t Be Shy Of Using Her Stuff
If she has the bigger car, the more feature-packed laptop or anything else that she wants to carry along when you two are on a date, don’t bother. To the more proud member of our species, this might prick their ego. However, you need to understand that it is about being sensible also. If she is used to a certain way of life and is ready to be honest about it, don’t fret. Similarly, if she wants to pitch-in with the bill every time you guys visit an eating place you usually wouldn’t dare enter, don’t hesitate.
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